embrace imperfection, find true freedom

hey there, let's talk about something counterintuitive today. in a world that's constantly pushing us to be positive, to strive for more, and to perfect every aspect of our lives, here's a refreshing thought: what if the key to true happiness and fulfillment lies in embracing our imperfections?

mark manson's insight cuts deep: "the desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience." think about that for a moment. how often do we chase happiness, only to feel more frustrated when we can't seem to grasp it? the truth is, we can't be happy all the time, and that's perfectly okay.

today, i challenge you to shift your focus. instead of pursuing endless positivity, what if you concentrated on what truly matters to you? what are the values that define your life? by aligning your actions with these core values, you'll find a sense of purpose that transcends fleeting emotions.

remember, true freedom doesn't come from controlling everything around you. it comes from accepting what you can't control and investing your energy in what you can. so, what's one thing you can do today that aligns with your values, regardless of whether it makes you feel instantly "happy"?

your challenge

take 5 minutes to write down three core values that truly matter to you. then, identify one small action you can take today that aligns with one of these values, even if it's challenging or uncomfortable.

brick by brick,

🧱 blake & luke 🧱