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master genuine connections: the power of authentic interest

you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

dale carnegie

hey there! today let's explore a timeless principle that transforms relationships and creates lasting connections. genuine interest in others is like a magnetic force that naturally draws people closer. when we shift our focus from seeking attention to giving it generously, something remarkable happens.

consider how different your interactions feel when someone shows authentic curiosity about your life versus when they're mainly focused on talking about themselves. this simple shift in perspective can revolutionize how we build and maintain relationships. what if you approached each conversation today with the primary goal of learning something new about the other person? how might this change the quality of your connections?

remember, authentic relationships aren't built on strategic manipulation but on sincere appreciation for others. by cultivating genuine curiosity and showing real interest in others' perspectives, we create space for meaningful connections to flourish. this approach isn't just about making friends - it's about creating a more empathetic and connected world, one interaction at a time.

your challenge

set a 5-minute timer and write down three questions you'd like to ask someone you interact with regularly. these should be thoughtful questions that show genuine interest in their life, experiences, or perspectives. commit to asking at least one of these questions in your next interaction with them.

brick by brick,
🧱 blake & luke 🧱