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unlock the power of genuine connection

you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

-dale carnegie

hey there, have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly build strong relationships while others struggle? today, let's explore a powerful insight from dale carnegie that could transform your interactions. the secret lies in genuine interest. it's not about being the most charismatic person in the room; it's about being the most interested.

when was the last time you felt truly heard and understood? that feeling is what you can give to others. by shifting your focus from trying to be interesting to being interested, you open doors to deeper connections. imagine the impact you could have by asking thoughtful questions and really listening to the answers.

it's not just about social skills; it's about creating meaningful bonds that can enrich your life and the lives of those around you. think about a recent conversation you had. did you spend more time talking or listening? today, challenge yourself to flip that ratio. remember, everyone has a story to tell, and by showing genuine curiosity, you're not only learning but also making others feel valued.

this simple shift in approach can lead to more fulfilling relationships, both personally and professionally. and who knows? you might just discover something fascinating about someone you thought you knew well.

your challenge

in your next conversation today, ask three thoughtful questions about the other person's interests or experiences. really listen to their answers, and follow up with genuine curiosity. notice how this changes the dynamic of your interaction.

brick by brick,


🧱 blake & luke 🧱